vampireapologist:

god i want the problems of a jane austen heroine so badly specifically sense and sensibility like oh no my dad died and my horrible brother left us destitute and by destitute i mean we only get to retain two of our Servants when we go live in a beautiful two story, stone house with a garden and farmland and caring if overbearing neighbors and it’s so sad bc despite attending balls I know I have no dowry so I’ll probably just have to marry for love ONLY instead of for love AND wealth as originally planned but little do I know in one month I’m going to marry rich anyway thank GOD life was getting hard having only two (2) servants : (

goldfishandumbrella:

what the sex positive movement should be about:

  • destroying the idea that sex is only for cis men and should revolve around them 
  • protecting sex workers 
  • protecting minorities oppressed for their sexual orientations and/or gender (LGBTQIA+) 
  • destroying the notion that sex is dirty and shameful 
  • be critical of the concept of virginity 

what the sex positive movement should NOT be about

  • defending the porn industry at all costs
  • normalizing gross kinks (raceplay, fetishizing little girls…)
  • trying to lower the age of consent and to say that 13-year-old sending nudes and having sex is fine 
  • mocking asexual people