Things my ex did to me
-She lied. Not the small white lies like instead of saying she had juice for something to drink she said she had water. She lied to me about her fucking name and didn’t tell me her real until 3 maybe 8 months into the relationship. She also claims that she didn’t try to “hack” my instagram when I found out the person who tried to was from her home town. So either she knew who did it or she did it herself
-Guilt tripped me. She would make me feel bad when I hung out with a friend, let’s call the friend Jay, of mine that she magically deemed her as a bad person, btw she never met her. Also she made me feel like I was cheating on her cause Jay took me to prom, because I was gonna take my ex but personal stuff got in the way where I could take my ex. I didn’t tell her I was going with Jay and when saw that Jay and I took a selfie at prom and put it on instagram she flipped out and accused me of lying and she got mad cause I wasn’t responding fast enough, but I was out dancing and having fun
-I couldn’t be upset with her. Like at all. She would cry and say I hated her so I couldn’t be upset with her but she could get upset with me and even if she made me feel bad she didn’t care
-Blamed her parents for bad things she did. Look I didn’t like her parents and they didn’t like me, they where/are homophobic and a bit racist and of course they weren’t that nice to her so we didn’t get along. But that being said every-time me or someone else called her out on her bullshit she would blame her parents because they never cared for her and that’s why she did what she did. Instead of taking responsibility for her actions
-Now she’s claiming that she never had a strong emotional connection with me. That’s bullshit because she cried to me multiple times that she was scared I was going to leave her. I have a very specific memory of me leaving my class to talk to her on the phone cause she had a bad dream about me leaving her. So fuck the whole she can turn off her emotions.
That being said I don’t think she a bad person, not at all, but I do think she had something she needed to deal with before she came into relationship. Also if you are the few who know her please don’t go and bash her. This is just a rant I need to get off my chest.
Anythinggoes12 