me & my bf (whomst is a white) have just purchased a new home, and im really excited to move in with him, but he keeps on pushing the concept of him putting a big ass confederate flag in the front yard, how do i diffuse this?

onlyblackgirl:

afronerdism:

kingjaffejoffer:

I’m sorry but I can’t focus on your question because all I can do is judge you for being in a relationship with a person like this. 

Nigga do you love yourself? 

Have you not given any thought to the possibility of getting pregnant and having a child with a white person who praises the confederacy and what kind of toxic bullshit he could put in your child’s mind?

And let’s not even get into how terrible his family must be and their potential influence on said child

You could have diffused this by making a sane and rational decision by not entering into a serious financial commitment with this dude 

As a biracial black woman with a racist white mother and racist family I beg you not to have children with this man. There’s nothing worse than knowing one of your parents doesn’t love you like they should because you’re black. And honestly its psychological torture to deal with racism in the world and then come home to even more racism

I read bf not husband so why you ain’t packed your bags and sped off into the night is beyond me. Lordt thank you for never making me this desperate for male affection that I would lay up with an unapologetic racist.