Boys, if you learned “They’ll like you if you tease and mess with them” message, that’s wrong. The best way you get someone to like you is through showing you like them. Even if they don’t reciprocate that, it’s no reason to stop being kind.
Girls, don’t demand to check your boyfriend’s phone for no legitimate reason. That invades his privacy and minimizes how much he trusts you.
Polyamory and cheating are not the same thing. The difference between the two is the communication. Polyamory is NOT people openly cheating on one another.
Also:
It’s never attractive to isolate your partner from their friends. Nor is it okay to claim them as your own, like they’re not human and YOU are.
Yes, people cheat. But do NOT take it out on your ex-s/o’s affiliates. If you are mad, the best way to vent is to talk rather than act with hostility. The best way to get revenge is to live well.
As these aspects are often romanticized in media such as manga and anime, we should also remember that these are fictional universes and can turn out to be quite problematic in the real world.
May this post please have more notes? I want users on this site to have healthy relationships, especially the young ones.